Healing and self growth

“Posts about breaking down, healing, and rebuilding myself step by step.”

  • Healing and self growth

    Discover Inner Solitude: How to Find Peace and Silence Within Chaos

    Section 1: The noise around us and the concept of internal solitude In today’s world life rarely gives us a pause. From the moment we wake up in the morning there’s constant chaos everywhere, phone ringing, children needing us, parents needing us, work deadlines, family conversations. There is an endless stream of external as well as internal noise. A noise which we cannot avoid. For most of us, especially if you are a parent, solitude feels like an impossible thing. When home is full of cries, conversations and responsibilities, there is no space for silence. But the truth is, solitude is not always about going to mountains or locking yourself…

  • Healing and self growth

    Why Change Feels So Hard — And The Truth About Transformation

    Introduction – Why change is so hard? Why is change so hard? Honestly, I keep asking myself this question every single day. A month ago, I was proud of myself—I had finally started walking daily, eating clean, and breaking free from junk food. I had even lost 5 kilos. For a moment, I thought, this is it… this time I’ve really changed. But here I am today… back to the same old me. The junk food has come back, the overeating has come back, and with it, the weight has also come back. More than that, the same insecurities, the same anxiety, the same fear inside me have returned. And…

  • Healing and self growth

    Why We Slip Back into Old Habits — and How to Break Free for Good

    Introduction – Slipping Back Into Old Habits — And How to Catch Yourself Early You promise yourself this time it will be different. You feel powerful, focused, and ready to change. And for a few days—or even weeks—you actually do. You walk daily, eat clean, stay away from distractions, and feel like you’re finally becoming the version of yourself you always wanted to be. There’s clarity, momentum, and a deep sense of control. But then, something shifts. Not suddenly—slowly. Silently. One day, I noticed something strange. Not in my actions, but in my thoughts. Old thoughts crept in—the kind where I’d tell myself it’s okay to skip one walk or…

  • Healing and self growth,  Parenting reflections

    Give them the greatest gift: Heal yourself

    Section 1: Wounded Parents — The Curse We’re Quietly Passing On Most of us had no business becoming parents in the state we were in — mentally fractured, emotionally reactive, physically drained, and spiritually lost. But life doesn’t wait for you to be healed. It pushes you into roles you’re not ready for and then watches silently as you pretend to hold it all together. We are walking around like functional wreckage.Angry without clarity.Frustrated without reason.Constantly blaming our childhood, our marriage, our parents, our jobs — everything but ourselves.We bury our pain under comfort food, pointless scrolling, endless distractions, and habits that quietly destroy us.We’ve become so used to being…

  • Fatherhood Journey,  Healing and self growth

    The Power of Food Discipline: My struggle and Breakthrough

    Section 1: When Willpower Isn’t Enough After that night — the night I almost gave in, and my daughter’s innocent look held me back — I woke up with a new fire in my chest. That one moment felt like a turning point. I thought, “This is it. From here, I will rebuild everything.” And I tried. I really did. I pushed myself to wake up early, started walking again. I opened my self-help books with hope. I attempted heart-to-heart conversations with people I’d grown distant from. I even tried to sit in silence, to meditate, to find some peace within. But it all crumbled — again. Within days, I…